One of my sons has gone on a trip to Europe with his friends. This is the first time he’s done this (although some of his friends have been away together before), partly because he doesn’t like flying, and partly because, being fair skinned, he’s not a huge fan of sunshine holidays. This trip is a city break though, and it’s November, so hot weather and too much sun are unlikely to be an issue.

Hi mother and I are understandably nervous – it’s one of those “firsts” that you go through with your kids. First night away from home. First time on a bus by themselves. First time driving alone. First trip to a pub. First trip to a nightclub. The list goes on.

He’s a sensible young man and, while I’m sure he’ll avail himself of some drinks while there, he won’t do anything foolhardy, but your children are precious and it’s natural to be concerned for their safety, security, and happiness, even if the likelihood of anything affecting these things is small.

He left the house early this morning to walk to the house of his friend who was driving some of them to the airport. I was asleep when he left, but woke at around four to go to the toilet and realised he had already set off. I was then unable to get back to sleep until I got a message from him saying he was at the airport. I slept off-and-on for the rest of the night and when I did wake properly, kept checking the progress of his flight. I was much happier when I knew he’d arrived safely and, while I’ll be much happier when he’s back home again, I feel less on edge today than I have for the last few. Being a parent can be stressful!

My other son (we have three) had a review meeting today for the internship he’s attending this year. We went along with him and were extremely happy with his progress. He is getting along great and we couldn’t have hoped for better feedback from the staff at the place he is working. We are very proud of him. There are also positive signs that there may be a permanent position for him, which is very good news. Being a parent can also be very rewarding. 🙂

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Taken on 19 September 2024